Adventurous Men are so Attractive!

Tips for an Adventurous Life    

     Be adventurous. Girls go for guys that have a passion for living. There are so many opportunities to try something new, and you need to take the initiative and go for it. Are you nervous? That's okay; we women get nervous trying new things too. I am here to lend you a hand in being adventurous.

Find Your Passion 

   

     First of all, you don't have to be on a date with someone to try something new. Have you always wanted to play the guitar? Start taking lessons, or get a friend to teach you. Have you tried Frisbee golf? Have you climbed a 14er? The point is, women are attracted to men who have activities they enjoy doing. Be the one who stands out. One day you will find the woman who has so much in common with you that you can't help but be friends. And, almost every dating relationship starts as friends.

Have More than One Hobby

     I want to warn you that one hobby that you obsess about does more harm than good. Are you in a band? Is that all you ever do or talk about? She probably won't be able to stay interested in what you're saying, unless that's all she's interested in too.

Live Life to the Fullest

     I have wanted to start kayaking lessons for about a year now. I keep making excuses, because I am too busy, and I have other commitments. I know I need to do it, and soon. I can't let all my desires and passions lie undiscovered and undeveloped. Maybe I won't make it past the Eskimo roll, but I will never know unless I try. I have always loved a good hike in the mountains. I was afraid that I wouldn't make it all the way up a 14er, so I was thrilled when I made it to the top of Mt. Evans. I even want to climb another 14er.

Go for it!

     Trying new things can be simpler. When you ask a girl out on a first date, stay with an activity or restaurant you are familiar with. After you've gotten to know each other, suggest something new. I personally like it when the guy comes up with a new date idea when it's something we will both enjoy. Try the new restaurant, go watch a baseball game, go eat frozen yogurt. Keep it interesting :).
     Thanks for reading! Let me know your hobbies, and original date ideas.

Quotes for thought:

“We are all functioning at a small fraction of our capacity to live life fully in its total meaning of loving, caring, creating, and adventuring. Consequently, the actualizing of our potential can become the most exciting adventure of our lifetime.”

Herbert A. Otto - Author (from values.com)

"Adventure without risk is Disneyland."
Doug Coupland