Monday, May 7, 2012

One-in-a-Million

Make Her Feel Special

Every woman wants to feel special. When you get into a dating relationship, making the woman you are dating feel special is crucial. If she doesn't know you believe she is one-in-a-million and great because of it, she may start looking for someone else. It is a sad, but often true, fact.

Listen

How are you going to make her feel special? First, listen to what she is telling you. Did she mention a test coming up in school, or if she is having trouble at work? Check back in with her a few days later and ask about it. I am always pleasantly surprised when a guy asks me about something I had been working on, whether it had been a school project, or a job application. This proves that you were listening, and that you care. (This is a very good thing :)

Compliment

Please compliment her. Did she dress up for your date? Tell her she looks great, beautiful, pretty... She will love any of those complimenting words, and kind original ones you think of yourself. Women have low self-esteem generally, so this should make her feel beautiful. (Women who are vain or selfish may not react the same way as shy or modest women. Remember what type of woman you are after, and take her reaction into consideration.)

Don't Forget the Flowers!

Flowers. Women love flowers. Unless she has a severe allergy to flowers, they are a great way to show her you were thinking about her... if she does have allergies, she may never want to see you again ;). (Most women aren't allergic to flowers. If you are concerned, ask her before you buy them if she is allergic.) Nothing says "You're special" like a dozen roses or a bouquet of her favorite flowers.

Need any other ideas? Leave a question or comment at the bottom and I will get back to you.


Quotes for the day

“A woman doesn’t need a perfect man. She just needs a special guy who can accept her the way she is and make her feel special.”
www.searchquotes.com

“When you have once seen the glow of happiness on the face of a beloved person, you know that a man can have no vocation but to awaken that light on [all] the faces surrounding him.”

Albert Camus (1913-1960); www.values.com