Are You Ready or Not?

Are you Ready?

Are you ready for a relationship? Be honest with yourself. Are you willing to put someone else's needs and desires above your own? There are so many things to think about when you are considering starting a relationship.

First of all, what kind of relationship are you looking for? If you are looking for a short, "fun" relationship, please don't date a woman hoping to get married soon. Don't waste each other's time. Be respectful of one another's time and emotions. (This goes for women too!)

Or Not?

Do you have a job? Get one. Women respect men who are working and men who have ambition. Besides, if you don't have a job, how will you pay for dates? Be prepared to pay for every date, and you will show her she is worth your time and money.

On first dates, find out what things she is interested in by asking questions. Be paying attention to see what things you have in common. Look for the 4 "princess" qualities you have previously decided are important to you. People who respect authority and parents, are thoughtful, and are genuinely interested in what you are saying are most likely mature enough for a relationship.

Be Thoughtful

In a relationship, you will have to be sensitive to the other person's needs. This means if she wants to take things slow, you honor her wishes. If she has a lot of homework and is stressing out about it, don't push her to go out with you. Win her heart by showing you care and that you are there for her.

By the way... don't forget about your friends. Make time to hang out with them. They will be there for you even when she isn't.

Quotes for the day:

A woman doesn't need a perfect man. She just needs a special guy who can accept her the way she is and make her feel special.

A relationship should not mean 'I don't talk to my friends anymore.' never lose your friends because of a relationship.

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Finding Your Princess

Qualities You are Looking for in Your Princess

What qualities are you looking for in your prospective princess? I have made a list of qualities that I desire in my future prince, and I think it would be helpful for men to make a list about their princess too.

Tips for Narrowing Your List

Here are tips for writing what qualities and characteristics you are looking for in a woman you date.

1. What are your values and beliefs? Are they important to you? Are you okay with compromising?
This is an important issue that can make or break a relationship.
2. What do you like to do? Would a girl who's afraid of bugs totally throw off your outdoor-loving lifestyle?
3. Do you want her to be smart and able to keep up with you? Some girls will be bored to tears listenning to your latest science experiment.
4. What things do you need to have in common? Do you both like to cook, or is she a picky eater?
5. Is she an introvert, or an extrovert? Will she be comfortable with your loud friends, or is she at home in a library?
6. So hopefully you have some sort of list started. Now, try to come up with 3-4 qualities that you will not compromise on. I know, sounds tough, but I know you can do it. And yes, gorgeous counts as a quality...

Remember*: She's Not Perfect, and Neither are You!

It had to be said. Everyone has flaws. I am sorry to tell you that there may not be a girl with ALL the qualities you wrote down... it probably depends on how long your list was ;). By having 4 qualities that you won't compromise on, you have a good base to find women you are attracted to.

Don't Waste a Lot of Time

You have either asked the girl out, or are planning to see her again. In your first date, or "get to know you" time, try to ask questions that will show you whether or not she has the qualities you are looking for. That way, if you are totally incompatible, you aren't so deep in that it will hurt to get out.

*Remember: If you are looking for a princess, you have to treat her like one!

Thanks for reading! Leave a comment at the bottom :).

Quotes for the day:

All guys should learn from Mario Bros. No matter how far their princess is, they should go after her.
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1: I told you I would always come for you. Why didn't you wait for me? 2: Well, you were dead 1: But death cannot stop true love...All it can do is delay it for a while.

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Adventurous Men are so Attractive!

Tips for an Adventurous Life    

     Be adventurous. Girls go for guys that have a passion for living. There are so many opportunities to try something new, and you need to take the initiative and go for it. Are you nervous? That's okay; we women get nervous trying new things too. I am here to lend you a hand in being adventurous.

Find Your Passion 

   

     First of all, you don't have to be on a date with someone to try something new. Have you always wanted to play the guitar? Start taking lessons, or get a friend to teach you. Have you tried Frisbee golf? Have you climbed a 14er? The point is, women are attracted to men who have activities they enjoy doing. Be the one who stands out. One day you will find the woman who has so much in common with you that you can't help but be friends. And, almost every dating relationship starts as friends.

Have More than One Hobby

     I want to warn you that one hobby that you obsess about does more harm than good. Are you in a band? Is that all you ever do or talk about? She probably won't be able to stay interested in what you're saying, unless that's all she's interested in too.

Live Life to the Fullest

     I have wanted to start kayaking lessons for about a year now. I keep making excuses, because I am too busy, and I have other commitments. I know I need to do it, and soon. I can't let all my desires and passions lie undiscovered and undeveloped. Maybe I won't make it past the Eskimo roll, but I will never know unless I try. I have always loved a good hike in the mountains. I was afraid that I wouldn't make it all the way up a 14er, so I was thrilled when I made it to the top of Mt. Evans. I even want to climb another 14er.

Go for it!

     Trying new things can be simpler. When you ask a girl out on a first date, stay with an activity or restaurant you are familiar with. After you've gotten to know each other, suggest something new. I personally like it when the guy comes up with a new date idea when it's something we will both enjoy. Try the new restaurant, go watch a baseball game, go eat frozen yogurt. Keep it interesting :).
     Thanks for reading! Let me know your hobbies, and original date ideas.

Quotes for thought:

“We are all functioning at a small fraction of our capacity to live life fully in its total meaning of loving, caring, creating, and adventuring. Consequently, the actualizing of our potential can become the most exciting adventure of our lifetime.”

Herbert A. Otto - Author (from values.com)

"Adventure without risk is Disneyland."
Doug Coupland