Communicating.
It's one word that packs a lot of meaning. Effective communication is critical in all friendships... and it can also make or break a dating relationship.
Did she just say what I think she said?
We all tend to assume we understand what people are saying to us. Unfortunately, there are many ways in which we can miscommunicate. Expression, tone, and words are not always clear. How do we solve this dilemma? If you are unsure of what the other person means, just ask for clarification. It is much easier to ask sooner rather than later. If they aren't willing to explain... that's a red flag.
Words that build
Guys, it is so important to let the girl you are dating know that you care about her. Encourage her in her hobbies and talents. Compliment her. Don't let the sun go down without letting her know you think she's something special. If she is worth your time, she will build you up and support your dreams too.
1 Thessalonians 5:11 "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
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